Hubby ask me why must people have kids? Do I want to havekids? For him, he feel if no kids, we can save a lot of money, every year wecan go travel, but he wanted to know how his child will looks like. For me, Ican have or without kids. Its not a must for me. Most people give the reason was its natural for married couple to have kids, parents wanted them to have kids. Some is because they like kids.
Its not easy to feed a child in Singapore. Money is a bigissue, how much must a family earn before you can really take care of a child?I believe we will use up all our savings, and what we earn every mth will alsobe use up, means we have no extra money to save. From childcare fees to food,wear….especially baby milk powder is so expensive. 1 mth can use up to or morethan S$1K. Still need to give both side parents money, home bills…
At the end of the day what do we have? So far no one cangive me a good answer why they want to have kids. Some choose not to have kidsas they feel they are happier without kids. They can save more money and buywhatever they want, do whatever they want, they have all the freedom. Those that have kids will complain how they feel, regret having kids.
So why have kids? Because everyone having kids so I alsomust have? Parents want to see their grandchild so have kids? Because it is astandard, married and have kids, it’s a procedure? Do I like kids? Not really very like, cute childens sure everyone like. Sometimes I find them very cute, sometimes I findthem very irrating. So I cant say I very like or don’t like at all. No answerhaha… So everytime I will only say its ok with me. Want or don’t want also can.Of cause I don’t mind to have a kid of mine. Most important is my hubby decision too, he want I am happy to have to. If he don’t want I am also ok.
Sometimes I also will wonder how my child will look like. Especiallywhen you see all your friends starting to have their own kids. What is thatkind of feelings of having your own kids. I may have a different thinking whenI have my own kids, most people say that. The feeling is very special. Anyway,leave it to nature, if have than have lol, if no also nevermind. If its mine itwill be mine.
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