I have written on so many things but I haven’t reallywritten about my hubby. I don’t get to know him through friends, nor at workplace, both of us are totally unrelated. Many people ask how we get to know each other. Not like most people, they go to the same school, or are excolleagues, or get to know each other while outing. When we tell them we kneweach other online, most people were surprised. I won’t elaborate how and which website we get to know each other.Friends start asking me, you not scare meh. Online friends you dare to meet? I told them ask long you are careful, no need to worry somuch. I can’t say I totally not scare, so I would try to chat more often than arrange for a meet up. Our 1st meet up was in AMK Hub, and he waslate haha. Our 1st meet up was ok, impression of him not bad. Forhim should be the same ba haha. I don’t remember how long later, both of usdecide to try it out. Of cause in the beginning our relationship wasn’t that strong, as time goes by, we get to know each other more.
We started our planning, to apply for flat, at 1stwe wanted to buy resale flat, but feel its not worth it, so in the end we apply for BTO. Till now still waiting for it. Than arrange for our wedding dates,most of it are settled so right now waiting for our flat to come only. Afterall these years, there are happy and sad moments, my hubby is not that type ofguy that will always sweet talk to you, nor will the word I Love You come outfrom his mouth. But I know he loves me, his actions show. I kind of love him more and more, I can’t imagine life without him.
Of cause I sometimes hope he will say some touching words to me, he will say very “rou ma”, he cant say itout haha. Its ok for me, I rather have a faitful hubby than those always sweettalk to wife but outside having an affair. I don’t need a romantic proposal, I only need a blissful marriage life. As long I know deep in hubby’s heart, I am the most important of all, that’s enough. Many things he do have already shown how much he care, action speaks louder than words. Sometimes my darling can be rather emotional, me too. But just give and take, every relationship are the same.
I am looking forward to our new flat, currently now he willcome over on Friday to Monday, Tuesday to Thursday he will be in TPY. Usually Iwon’t look out of the window, when I bath finish, he will wash up and driveback to tpy to change to his company van. Before he leave I will give him a bighug, going to miss him haha. I happen to look out of the window, saw himwalking alone towards his car, I suddenly feel very sad. I kind of miss him somuch, seeing his back view I don’t wish him to go… haha. That was silly of me. Its just my feelings suddenly realise how much I miss him.
6 months plus into our marriage life, so far still ok, and ever since I switched to a normal office hour job, we have more time for ourselves. Somehow I still feel not enough time together. Maybe because we haven’t really got a place of our own. I kind of looking forward to my new home, waiting and waiting for HDB to pass meour keys! They are really damm slow, think the snail crawl faster than them.Anyway, what I can say is I love my hubby more and more each day and I believe it’sthe same for him too.
I will do my best to make our marriage a blissful one. I never forget what our solemniser said on our marry day, this will be the hand you going to hold forever, no matter what happen, never let go of this hand, till you grow old, hair all white, no more teeth, this will still be the hand you holding…forever.
