People are asking when you want to have a baby? You are not young anymore, don’t have baby too late. Actually we knows, I also worry I will be too old to have a baby. Hubby have his own plan, wait for our flat to come, move in for a few months than try for a baby. At 1st i dont quite agree with him, as we all know, things dont alway goes as you plan. You want that period to have a baby doesnt means you will get it. I have heard many people talking about it.
Most are the same, have planning, but when try, its often different from what they plan, when they are trying to have a baby, its wasn’t successful, later on they give up on the idea and they got pregnant. At 1st they feel rather lost as they decide to stop trying for the time-being. Now they accept the fact they are going to be parents. I even know 1 girl, she was pregnant, she didnt want to have it as she feel she wasnt ready, her hubby feel since pregnant than just give birth. But the girl mind set was "NO", she really wasnt ready to be a mum, i think she end up eating too much medicine and the baby was gone. I wasnt very close to her so i didnt ask her about what actually had happened. But i feel its really sad, there are some who are trying hard but just couldnt get a baby. Maybe she really not ready to be a mummy and she is still quite young,not mature at all.
Hubby's ponit of view is that if I get pregnant now, it will be difficult for us as old people will say cannot do this cannot do that. We might get our flat this year, if I am pregnant I will not be able to move house etc… I believe we have many things to do on reno, buying of furniture and how we want to display our things. So its best to wait for all these to settle 1st. Move in than try to have a baby.
Money also plays a part. Its not easy and we need to spend quite alot on house. We need some time to rest awhile, having kids isnt going to be easy. I agree with him, although many voices saying no good for me, because of my age. But its not that simple, now its totally out of the question. With me just switch to a new job and still under probation, its totally impossible.
Even after confirmation, I cant right away get pregnant. At least afew months more. By that time i may have move in to my new house, than it will be the right time. Its also not very convinent for me now, i dont want to carry a big tummy to squeeze and push into the bus 965! Now i can squeeze and push my way in, run after bus, wait for bus till my blood vessel want to explode. Can i still squeeze and push my way into the bus with a big tummy?
As long as I move into my new flat in punggol, it will be easy for me. The company I work in provide transport from Sengkang, so I only need to travel by mrt from punggol to sengkang. In the morning, hubby can send to to Sengkang, at night I will go back by myself. I can even walk back to punggol. So in the end no matter what others say, we will continue to stick to our plan. Will i get pregnant anot by than, i will not think so much, let nature takes its course. If its mine, it will be mine.
