I "LOVE" SingaPORE

I love Singapore because It is a top country, everything is Number 1!!! Transport number 1, MRT BREAK DOWN record number 1. How many times have they break down? In 6 mths time, break down how many times? Tell me lal! I love singapore cause they only know how to say SORRY. Everytime the same WORD. Only say no action...SORRY SORRY SORRY... Please lal, pay those people who are late for work because of YOU!

I love Singapore because the EXPRESSWAY alway jam, i recently change the name "Expressway" to "Slow-way", but someone choose "Jam-way", i think JAM WAY the best, because no matter what time, rain or no rain, its forever jam. Whenever i reach jam-way i become very happy, our road here are so FANTASTIC. Rain will jam, accident will also jam. Every single day jam. JAM JAM JAM, such a wonderful country.....everywhere any road also can jam, no one can win us in jaming the road...

I love Singapore cause our singapore drivers to me are all champions! They can drive at the speed of 20!!! Fantastic! No wonder JAM-WAY will jam. No rain also drive at speed of 20, rain more wonderful, drive at the speed of 10, so clever! We dont need good cars here, cause no matter how good the car is, reach jam way you will cry. No no wont cry is laugh till you want to die. In singapore no matter you go by MRT or BUS, nothing is safe, mrt will break down, bus will jam in Jam Way. Drive also same. Singapore is such a wonderful place to live in, everyday your blood pressure will circulate. I havent add in the waiting time for a bus to come...up to 1/2 for me but i heard before people waiting for 1hr for a bus to come.

I love Singapore because most of the time i feel i am in another country. When i reach Orchard, i thought i am in Philippines, when i reach Chinatown, i thought i am in China, when i reach Little India, i thought i am in India, when i was in mrt or bus, i thought i am a foreigner, as you see i see more than 1/2 of the people in the mrt/bus are either china/philippinos/bangladesh... only 30% are SINGAPOREANS. Such a wonderful place to live in.

I love Singapore because i feel very stress. Want to buy a flat must pay so much, such high living standard really will kill us, slowly sucking our blood till we left bones. Earn such little pay and fight for jobs with FTS! There are many jobs out there but companies would rather emply FTS ya....so what are we?

I love Singapore because i dont feel like a 1st class citizens! I feel we are ( Singapore born) 3rd class citizens, we need to fight for a place in school with FTS, we need to fight for jobs with FTS, we need to fight for a space in mrt/bus with FTS...We need to fight for a place to stay with FTS too...SHIT! What else, go toilet also must fight? Give birth need to fight for a place anot?

I love Singapore because my cpf $$$$ forever not mine, even if i can retire i cant get all the $$$ out! No no, no chance to retire, in this place you can never retire. Cant affort to retire, unless go to other countries, give up citizenship. (Considering)

I love singapore because they let many so called FTS to study for free here and call us "DOGS". And he can continue stay and call us dogs ya....such a wonderful place to live in. What will they call us next? Woof Woof....

Tell me! Do you think FTS will stay in Singapore forever? Come on lal, you need FTS, yes i agree, BUT we don't need so many of them. Do we? And they say they need MORE FTS here! Sooner or later they will go back to their OWN Countries to buy land build house, what about us? We have nothing, really nothing. Are they fair to us? They just let us die here. Who is going to take care of us? I wonder who! In Singapore its best to die early, the longer you live, the longer you suffer.

See how Wonderful Singapore is, such a wonderful place to live in. Everyday have to worry about $$$, worry if can affort to have babies anot, worry about if i will be late anot because of mrt/bus, worry if i will lost my job to FT anot, worry if my kids in futher will have a place in school anot, worry when they grow up cant get into Singapore University and have to send them overseas, if i need to do that i will tell them never to come back to Singapore and bring us along. Worry if everything will increase again anot, worry if fall sick no $$ to see doctor. (I dont think i can get a surgery at $8) Worry...blah blah blah

I love Singapore....so very much! Dont you too love your super nice country?

My Friend's naughty son

Recently I have received calls from Jolyne, whining about her son’s behaviour. Her son had been coming up with a lot of pattern. Jolyne was so angry and upset till she almost break down, tearing up his homework, chasing him out of the house etc… All this does not have any impact on him at all, he will just cry awhile and back to his same behaviour again. This routine continues again n again, no matter what method you use, its useless to him.

Actually till now I don’t know what overcome him, knowing this child since he was in K1, Jolyne was very strict with him, from homework to his behaviour, things he need to do everything, guiding him to be independent etc… He has been ok, of cause most of the times he is up to some mischief, but still able to guide him to the right track. After he went to Primary school, things started to change, not better...but to the worst side.

Pri 1 and 2 was still ok, of cause teachers often complain him, talk alot lal, not listening lal blah blah blah... since he went to Pri 3 and this year Pri 4, his attitude become worst. Playing truant, caught red handed by Jolyne but refuse to admit, telling lies. No interest in doing his homework, everyday just thinking of playing. His exams results was bad, this year CA 1 i think he fail sll the subjects. Jolyne so worry he will goes to foundation.

Giving him so many tutions, no improvement. He just dont show any interest at all, he just anyhow do his work, try to finish it quickly so that he can play. Try talking nicely to him, beat him, scold him all useless. Jolyne dont know what to do with him anymore. Even if he is in the wrong, he will just argue back. I cant provide any solutions for her.

I start thinking, is it because from small, he was not in a good enviroment, causing him to become so rebellious. From what i know, Jolyne and her hubby are alway quarrelling, 1 week can quarrel up to 3 times. I alway tell her not to quarrel infront of him, how would he feel? Her hubby will start throwing things, arguing, pushing all faults to Jolyne. I just feel this isnt right, the child sees and learn all the bad things from parents. Also in school, what type of friends does he have, you cant control all the friends he made.

Of cause i have friend's kid that are well behaved, there are times when they are naughty. From what i know my this friend was the one to scold and beat while her husband will later on talk to the kid, telling him why mummy beat him. He will actually goes and apologise to mummy. Teaching them what is right or wrong is important, to start as early as possible. While 1 party is teaching, the other party best not to interference, the other party have to talk to the child, why and how. Anyway it also depends on the child, his attitude, his mentality...

I wonder when i have my own kids, what type of enviroment can i give them? How to guide them to be a better person? Its not easy, not only have to guide them on their behaviour, on their school work, worries about the friends they mix with. Usually we are all working, unable to spend so much time with them. We cant really see what they are doing while we are working. We can only do our best.

Raining wednesday

It’s a cold Wednesday morning, waking up at 5:40am only to realise its raining outside. Such a cool weather to sleep and rot in bed, unwilling I wake up, bath and get ready for work. In my mind I kept thinking how nice it would be if I could continue my sleep… dreaming away. Back to reality, better leave the house early in case it will jam.

Singapore is a funny country, if its rains, outside sure jam. Its not normal jam, its very jam till you want to cry, everyone drives very slowly…so so slowly till you want to scream and definitely there will be accident somewhere out there without fail. 100% comfirm haha. No rain also will have accident, rain more accident. Accident + slow= Jam till you die.

When i reaches office, its still raining fiercely outside. The air-con was cold, drank a cup of warm coffee and start my day after enjoying my warm coffee. Looking on the bright side, its already wednesday, 2 more working days and i can enjoy myself on Friday 6pm onwards. I guess those that have the same workng days as me will have the same mentality as me. Looking forward, thinking now how you going to spend your sat and sun.

Havent really discuss with hubby where to go for dinner on friday night, how we are going to spend our sat and sun. I believe he hates thursday (He needs to go study at night). But he can think of friday, weekend coming soon, that may cheer him up. Come on man! Cheer up! Weekend coming soon! Sat morning wake up at 9 plus am, go down for breakfast, go home cook lunch, than go see id with future neighbours. Sun...pending...

Back to wednesday, i hope it wont rain for the whole day. Last night it rains, i was unable to go jogging, tonight i need to ot, tomorrow night i want to go jogging again, so i hope it wont rain. Office so cold now, making me feel so sleepy, rain rain go away.....goooo away pls.....

My poor hubby

My poor hubby keep complaining he feels very stressed, just started school for the 3rd week, this 2 subject was difficult for him. Some which he could not really understand. I told him to go earlier for class and ask his lecturer to guide him on those which he does not understand. I know its wasn’t easy as he is not young anymore, having stopped school for so long. Suddenly need to study again, the mind needs sometime to be active again.

In the 1st place i also encourage him to study, i wonder am i the cause he will go study, causing him to feel stress, moody. Should give HIM A BIG KISS HAHA...

Sometimes he will feel moody, there wasnt much I could do, I cant help him in his homework, especially maths! I guess many people don’t like maths, I am very poor in maths, its either just pass or fail. So i could not encourage him. I began to wonder if I am given a chance to study, will i? Every course sure got math, I am damm weak in maths, that’s what hold me back from studying, I am afraid of maths!

Recently my friend told me she wanted to take up a course in business administration, ask if I want to go with her. I have been thinking for some time, actually I wanted very much to go. But, I just change a job, still trying to cope with it. My flat coming soon, maybe by sep 2012, I will be busy doing reno buying furnitures… Once settle down in new flat, will start to try for a baby. So will I be able to cope all these while I need to study part time? Till now I don’t have an answer. I don’t have the confident I can cope with everything, with my hubby studying till mid july, I need to comfort my darling when he feels down. It will be dad if both party feels down and moody, how to encourage when both feels sad, stress, moody? And I currently still doing my best to settle down in my new job, I don’t have the mood to do other things now.

So I can only put on hold and see how it goes. When I first start my job, I have been very scared and down,my hubby worries so much about me, telling me to jia you, if cant don’t force myself. Slowly everything getting better, day by day I become braver. Sometimes in office I don’t really know what to do, or I have nothing to do. I have to try find things do to pass my time. Now I know how to entertain myself and try to look busy haha. 3 months can be long but will be over very soon, once probation over everything will be ok, I believe it will not be a big problem.

So , my hubby have to jia you le, study hard, don’t understand ask till understand, JIA YOU!!! Don’t be moody le, look forward, it will be over sooooooon………look forward! Lao Gong! Jia You!!! Give you a big big kiss! The most i let you play hide n seek with Ah Poohssss.....

Its has been 2 weeks since i change a new job

Time really pass by very fast, my 2nd Sat and Sun off day was very busy. Friday night went to Da Bo Gong to pray than to old airport road hawker for dinner. We ate sinful food, chicken chop and pork chop, hubby even went to queue up to buy the very famous "Lao Ban dou hua", saying he wanted to try if its worth to queue so long.

After tasting it, i can only say its not bad but its not worth my time to queue so long to eat it. Its not that fantasist, just ok lol. I rather eat the normal 60 cents dou hua haha. Its cheap and i do not need to queue. Later on we meet up with hubby's friend to chit chat, so i slept quite late on friday night.

I woke up early on sat as i have a facial appointment at 10:45am, hubby drive me to Toa Payoh, we had breakfast and then i went for my facial, which i fall asleep again haha. Noon time we went to 3 id to ask for quotation. 1st one not bad and the price was the cheapest, the quotation he gave was hand written which i dont like. Why? Because his hand writing was horrible. Cant actually read what he was writing, i believe there are many hidden cost. The 2nd one really cannot make it haha.

The 3rd one we went to was good, we spend 2hrs plus in there. He is very detailed, now we waiting for his quote. Of all the id we went to we feel he is the best. Hopefully his price wont scare us, no matter how its below 18K. Sunday we went in to jb, watch movie ate breakfast and came out. We meeting 1 of our future neighbours and bring them over to the 3rd id which we like. They too, like him very much, also hopeing his price is ok. hahaha.... My hubby really good at trying his best to bargain haha....that i leave it to him as he alway say his mind turn faster than me. So he do the talking lol.

They spend 3hr plus there haha....than head for dinner and went home. Since Monday have to work, its better to rest early and have enough energy for monday! But!!! As usual, my hubby without fail will hide my POOH BEARS....very angry...alway paly hide n seek with me! Really feel like beating him up. He still say its entertaining me! Ok lol he win lol.

My sat and sun didnt have a chance to sleep till late late, hope this coming weekend can sleep later. Now i patiently wait for the 1st public holiday to arrive, that will be Good Friday...long weekend coming...