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A new friend joining me

Today there are 3 new staffs joining the company I worked in. One of them was my ex-colleuage Min from my ex company. Sometimes I feel fate is a miracle, its really amazing. Working in my ex company for so long, Min and me seldom chat on the phone, we know each other exist, but
didn’t know each other well. We were in the same company but different branch. We sort of like get to see each other when we go to our main office in orchard, but same, didn’t talk much. As I am not that type that goes round talking to other people, I am not that out-going. I am quite shy,
I need people to talk to me 1st. But now I trying to make a head start 1st, but I always run out of topic as I don’t really know what to say. So that explain why both in the same company for so many years and don’t know each other well.

Until recently I found a job in my current company. Through my branch colleauge Chevig, I know she wanted to have a change too, and wanted to get my agent contact. I gave her my agent email address and she emailed her. I believe its fate, she came to the same company I work in for interview. At that time I couldn’t tell her much as I am very new, our position are different too. At that stage I am very scared, being in a few days only. She can only decide herself, same as me she wanted a normal 5 day work job, off on sat and sun. If thers a change why not try out! She is still so young, no need to be afraid. It will be a stepping stone for her, working in account side she will
get to learn a lot, good for her haha. She is going to earn a lot in furture.

Since than we did chat more often, in facebook too we will comment and even meet up haha, my hubby pattern, match making, I actually introduce a guy give Min? Yes I did it, kpo haha. Min feels ok, as she don’t mind having more friends. My hubby's friend feel the same too, so we all meet up for lunch, chit chat. Anyway just be friends mah, it they are fated to be together, no matter how will be together. If no chemistry, than be friends. No harm having another friend. From what I heard, both of them did watsapp each other later on…mmmm….

I told her I will meet her today, since its her 1st day of work. Shw will be taking the same transport as me in Sengkang. She told me she is very nervous, I can understand how she feel. I feel the same as her when I 1st come work, feeling so loss and scared. I think I was more afraid than her. She still have me to talk to, wont feel so lonely. When I 1st come I feel so alone, but
slowly I feel better. Although I still have some fears, I learn to relax and not to worry too much. Cause by worrying also wont help much, only make me more stress and wont look forward to come work. So, let nature take its course. As long I did my best, theres nothing much to worry about. Always remember see no evil, hear no evil.

Later i will bring Min out for lunch, told her to relax and not to worry, its her 1st day of work only. It just bring back all the memories, I keep complainnig how scared I was, notti trying to convince me, my hubby keepsms me to see if I am ok. I just feel so sacred I totally have no mood. It took to 2 weeks and more to slowing get use to it and not to be afraid. 1st step is always very scaring, but if you don't try, you will never know if you can do it anot. At least you try, no matter fail or success, you did your best and there is no regret. Good luck Min and myself, lets work hard together and do our best!

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